Sexy hands on her back

When men talk about what, outside of personality, they find super attractive about a certain woman , the list usually involves a lot of body parts. But when women describe what they find attractive about a man, it often comes down to body language; the way he walks, the way he holds a glass, and even the way he buttons his shirt can be huge, inexplicable turn-ons. Not that a girl can't appreciate a nice set of guns, of course, or a tall frame, but more often than not, it's little gestures that can drive a woman wild. And what's funny about it is that the guy doesn't even realize he's doing something that's a turn-on, because that's just how he is naturally which, of course, is part of what makes it so hot. Herein, allow us to present a brief list of some of the non-sexual sexy things guys do that women have revealed to be huge turn-ons.

A few weeks ago, I was sitting at a local cafe with my head in a book when my friend Violet not her real name, but her real favorite flower happened by. She slid into the chair across from me and leaned forward, hooked. Violet is, by any standards, easy on the eyes—petite but ahem stacked, with olive skin and long, butterscotch hair. And yet, at 33, my friend has had only two brief relationships and a long string of first-date flops. Thanks to the intriguing, sometimes maddening volume in my hand, I felt I could help her. The science of sex has long been pondered by Mensa types in white lab coats, but lately there's been a surge of studies on attraction.

If you're sure men are turned off by your trackie bottoms or make-up-free-face, think again. Sometimes it's the simplest of things that create that spark, from using your wits to using the natural look. Some of these may feel obvious, but we've gathered together expert top tips and advice when it comes to men finding women sexy.

Say her name. She wants to know that your focus is on her and only her. So say her name. Again and again and again.